Idolatry. We run up against this sin every day because we are tempted to worship at the altar of things and famous people rather than the God who created everything in the world.
Idolatry can go by another name that’s more common to us—materialism.
You probably don’t think of yourself as an idol worshiper, but you very well could be.
No, you most likely don’t have small wooden or stone figurines sitting around your house that you bow down to and offer up prayers to.
But there may very well be other things in your life that play a similar role. It could be money, your career, your car, your house, your status in the community, or even something else.
You may give these things prime space in your life while knocking God out of the top spot of importance.
Even if you don’t realize it, these idols can influence your daily behavior, causing you to pursue them while putting your reverence and service to God on the back burner.
For example, if you spend 60 or 70 hours a week working, and you don’t feel like doing anything else when you’re not at work, then your career may be your idol.
If you’re so hung up on getting ahead in life because of the status that will bring, you most likely have put God in second place (or lower) in your life.
If you put in extra hours at work just so you can drive a car with a fancy name plate, your career may be your idol (not that there’s anything wrong with driving a nice car).
To be able to wear designer clothes just for the sale of the label is a form of idolatry (once again, not that there’s inherently wrong with designer clothes.
Sports could be your idol. If you never miss playing golf on the weekend and something just feels off if you don’t get to hit the links, you may have misplaced priorities.
In short, if there’s anything in your life that’s more important to you than God and the opportunities you have to spend quiet time alone with Him, it’s most likely an idol.
If you have teenagers, you may have noticed that the walls of their rooms are covered with posters of famous teen-age heartthrobs or musicians.
It is these images that your kids are looking at first thing in the morning and are the last thing they see at night.
I should know. When I was 14 or 15, almost every square inch of my bedroom wall was covered with pictures of heavy metal bands I had cut out of Circus or Hit Parader magazine.
Even though my mom probably cringed every time she went in my room, I don’t remember her ever saying anything to me about it.
After I accepted Jesus into my life, I gradually realized that these weren’t images I wanted on my walls anymore. They slowly came down as my relationship with God grew.
However, we as parents may need to say something to our kids about the icons they look up to.
Whether it’s sports figures, musicians, or actors, these famous people may be making it hard to place God at the front and center of their lives.
Let’s face it, if there’s a scantily clad woman on your son’s wall, that’s what his attention is going to be on—not God.
How often have you ever seen a teenager’s room with a rendering of Jesus hanging on the wall? I’d say these instances are few and far between.
Yet, Jesus is who we (and our kids) need to idolize. He died a horrible, painful death by one the worst methods of torture and execution that has ever come out of the evil heart of man.
He did that so that we could stand spotless before the Father, washed clean of our sin, as He took all our sin upon Himself.
His resurrection and conquering of the grave was the final straw, so to speak, as He was the firstfruits of us believers who will live eternally with Him.
Don’t get me wrong. I have nothing personal against LeBron James, Bradley Cooper, or Justin Bieber—but have they ever done anything personal for you or your children?
They’re idolized because of what they have accomplished in their chosen fields, not necessarily what they have done to help humanity.
I believe that we as parents need to set the proper examples for our children by placing our priorities in the right places.
We need to honor God and put Him first place in our homes.
If discussions of bedroom posters come up, we should have heart-to-heart talks with our kids and help them understand how hanging a particular image on their wall is a form of idolatry.
But we need to go further than that. We can’t just sit back and expect our kids not to follow the examples we set for them.
God should be honored in our households, whether that’s through a prominent display of a family Bible or an artist’s rendition of Christ.
What our kids see us doing will have an even greater impact on our families, as children tend to pick up habits from watching their parents, in contrast to the appropriate advice their parents try to impart to them.
It’s a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it. To raise up the next generation of leaders whose hearts are in the right place—honoring God— we have to do the hard work of setting the right example for our children.
Who’s in?
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