I recently heard Stephen Furtick, pastor of Elevation Church, say something to the effect of, “It’s impossible to experience peace if you’re expecting perfection.”
I believe there is a ton of truth in that statement. Too many times I have fallen into that trap, thinking that once something specific happens, I’ll finally be happy.
Once I make $_____ a year, I’ll have arrived and I can feel like I’ve accomplished something.
Or, once I’m able to buy such and such a car, then I’ll feel good about myself.
The truth is, perfection is a rare bird. If you or I live our lives waiting for it, we’ll spend our whole lives “on hold.”
We’ll never feel quite right inside—not until we get that one thing we’ve been waiting for. That job, that house, that car, even that spouse.
We’re told in Matthew 6:34, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
We’re not designed to live life thinking, “If only….” Today is all we have. We’re not even guaranteed that we’ll wake up in the morning and have another day on this earth.
We’ll never achieve perfection in these human bodies we inhabit. The world is a broken place, and we must accept that if we’re ever going to experience contentment and peace.
Embrace your flaws and realize that they’re what make you who you are.
And while you’re at it, embrace the flaws of others as well. The rest of the people on this planet are in the same situation—they’re not perfect either. Don’t hold them to a higher standard than you hold yourself.
Certainly, we should try our best. But we must realize that our best will not lead us to perfection.
It’s not the way the world works. Since the moment that the first man and woman took bites from the forbidden fruit, we’ve been unable to attain perfection.
Take satisfaction with what you have, where you are, and who you are.
That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to improve ourselves. The minute you stop making forward progress you begin to slip backward.
You’re always moving in one of two directions—progressing toward a better you, or regressing toward a lesser you.
But realize that life is about the journey, not the outcome. Take joy in the steps you make each day toward making your life—and the lives of those you touch—better.
Be glad that you have the opportunity to make a difference in the world. Just remember that it’s not about perfection, but rather about the process.